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Outercourse: Safe Way To PleasureDr. Alex Comfort, in his book The Joy of Sex, noted that some men easily achieve orgasm by placing the erect penis between the wife's feet.And there are the many variations of masturbation, with thousands of fantasies available. So, you see, there are still many ways to enjoy sex without the use of a condom, and also without risking AIDS or Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs). But, so far we have spoken of pleasure for the man. What about the lady? She would also like to enjoy risk-free sex. In the West, it is quite common for a man to provide immense pleasure to a woman through cunnilingus, the use of the male tongue applied to the vagina. Many surveys show women derive more happiness from such foreplay than from the act of coition, or entry of the penis to the vagina. My advice is this: If you try, you will find plenty of ways to enjoy the sexual happiness you deserve. Sex is like Chinese food: There are so many variations, you can have something different every day, forever. SOURCES: For this essay, I used my textbook The Complete Guide to Safer Sex, compiled by The Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality, published by Barricade Books Inc., of Fort Lee, New Jersey, Chapter 7: How to Create a Safer Sex Lifestyle. I also used my sexology workbook from the course I took, Associate in Sex Education. I also looked into The Joy of Sex, A Gourmet Guide to Love Making, edited by Alex Comfort, M.B., Ph.D., published by Pocket Books of New York, New York, Section 4: Main Courses. NOTE: Mr. Boschman has written a book giving guidelines for couples to enjoy excellent sex without worry. In the book he gives much more detail on this subject. In fact, he says Outercourse is one of the major steps toward Sexual Bliss. The book title is: Six Steps to Perfect LovingTM: A Step-by-Step Guide to Sexual Bliss. The book is published electronically or as a limited paperback edition. That means you can order it through your computer, and then download it to your hard disk or have a limited edition paperback delivered. No one will know. Then you can read it any time.  |
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